Traditional values - a thing of the past?

I consider myself to be a traditional girl. Have we lost that sense of tradition in today's society? What ever happened to the days when dating was for courtship and marriage? Now it seems like a freakers ball. Date whomever, go to bed with whomever...whatever happened to respecting ones self? Nowadays women do not respect themselves and you can see it posted all over these boards. Should I give my man an ultimatum after living with him for 6 years? My man got me pregnant but goes to the bars....my man plays video games all day....my man doesn't pay attention to me. I want a divorce because x y or z...whatever happened to the tradional family and the value system instilled in those families? I am very traditional and cannot seem to find like minded men. They all seem to want to shack up, get laid etc. Are there any traditional men left?